Yesterday I picked my daughter up from Charlotte. Where she attends college at Johnson and Wales university to be a chef. The city is going through difficulties right now. I was a little anxious going into that “protest” environment. Where humanity shows its ugly side. But love makes you strong, and as we drove home last night my baby safe and at my side I thought of this. Today is her birthday. She turns 18 and I, with hesitation Whisper to myself “she is now an adult”. What? She hasn’t been home in 20 ish days and last night she, again slept in our home where she belongs. Safe and happy and feeling loved. I’m a firm believer that when difficult situations come up and they involve your family, as with Miep being away at college during dangerous conditions or Shepherd in the hospital it’s important for the family to come together. So on this day sept 24 18 years ago my first child was born. It was on that day so many years ago that I realized my purpose for life, I was a dad. That’s all that really mattered. So for the next 18 years that was my life, fatherhood. So as I reflect on all of your accomplishments, the friends you have made, the love that you show and the drive and ambition that amazes me. Mia Rae Starcher you are stunning and that day so many years ago you stole me heart and know this. I don’t care what or where you are or under what conditions, 

you call your dad to come get you and I will. I will always stand between those that dare to do harm and you. I will always have your back and I can’t wait to grow old watching you continue to amaze. 

You are the gift I was given on your birthday. I love you Thanks for giving me the privilege of being called dad happy birthday Miep my Pon Pon. #mattdad #fatherdaughter #chefmiarae